St. Jude, i am praying again to be reunited with my fiancee, my love, my protector, my best friend. he had a stroke & his stepdaughter showed up, moved in, and has taken over his life. she has convinced him i am not good for him. we are together 16 years and have been through a lot. my dad was carjacked and wasn't found for a long time. he was beaten and left to die after they took his car & left him naked on the streets of brooklyn. jimmy stayed with me and supported me through this. i helped my jimmy in other ways. i loved & cared for him and took care of him which he never had before. he had a short, bad marriage and she cheated on him in his own home while he was working 3 jobs to have the ability to purchase a house and a vacation house. he is a good man. i don't know what happened. i have not heard his voice in almost 3 months. i was told by someone who saw him that he said it was time to move on. from what? me? i was going to move down to fl with him this year but first spend a few months at a time. he and i lived in his ny house for a year before he had bought a business and moved there but every single month for 16 years my love came up to be with me for at least 5 days during the times when i was not down there. he doesn't answer phone calls, texts, emails, cards that i have sent to him. the past christmas was a major milestone and my whole family saw how different he was with me, caring abt me and that he was relaxed and interacted with them so they saw the man that i know and love. we made plans to meet my aunt and uncle and brother and his family in florida in april. i texted him that i was coming down in april no matter what because we had plans and i needed to see him and be with him. i told me family we could get together if he was feeling up to it otherwise they were coming to visit him. the next morning on his cell phone was a very short text telling me not to come. that he doesn't want me and take care. this was sent on his phone at 7:30 am the night after i said i was still going to him. she wrote it. he does not write like that. i write most of his letters for him because he is not good at it. i am just praying that she leaves. i am praying he sees that she only wants to be his proxy and be on his business and property he owns. my jimmy just told me before the stroke to come and stay as long as i wanted. that note was cruel and cold, something he is not. this stepdaughter also stole gold coins from him abt 8 yrs ago and he wasn't involved with her any more for awhile but i guess she worked her way in and took advantage and has now taken over. i have never even met her except for 1 time when we were first dating and we were in a supermarket and he stopped to say hello and introduce me. she totally ignored me and only spoke to him. i walked away. but this is the person she is. please get her out of our lives. please st. Jude, let his mind work that he did before and bring us back together. he even helped me financially and stopped doing everything for me after she got involved. i am struggling now to survive without his help. please st. jude let jimmy remember how good we are together, how he loves me and cares for me even if he has only told me a few times but always told me in cards, how he feels. i know it was hard for him to finally give in to us out of fear but he did and we were good. and i know there are miracles all the time and i am praying that we become one of them. i am so afraid something will happen to him and i won't even know it. i don't think she lets anything that i send there get to him. no valentine's day cards and gifts, no inspirational card for jesus to help him in his time of need, no general i love you cards, get better cards, etc. i asked him and i got no answer. and altho she is a nurse i find it very strange for her to be there and help her stepfather get dressed and shower. that is not appropriate to me. thank you . i need help desperately, he needs help desperately, we need each other, like we have all these past years. amen