please guide Ben through the people in his life to love them but not to have to emulate their behavior. Let him develop strength and courage and confidence to find his place in the world. Let him find good friends that are loyal through the years Let him learn.if he doesnt control his temper others will control him. Let his faith grow strong because without the Lord life gets even tougher. Let him be kind to people and animals and the weak. Let him value his family friends faith and the beauty of the earth and the blessing to be in it. Let him know how much I live him.