St. Jude, please help us. Jimmy had a stroke and was in the hospital. stepdaughter showed up before me. she doesn't even know me but dislikes me because i had found out she stole money from him and proved it to him. she is now in control of everything including telling him we are no good for each other...i am no good for him. we are together 16 years and the past 2 have been major steps in our relationship to go forward and live together again, as we had done when we first met. i love him and he loves me. he has only said it a few times but by his actions, his generosity, his caring, his help in so many parts of my life, he shows it. recently i contacted him via text and asked if he was okay. he said he was in hospice and has cancer. i don't know if this is true. she, under guise of being him, wrote me a text previously saying: i have to worry about myself, take care and some other things and he would never even use some of the words in this text and he never calls me by my first name, he has a nickname for me. i was broken hearted. now i do not know if this cancer scare is real. i am going to florida soon to visit my family. he was supposed to be going with me. i am trying hard to control my heart, my anguish and my helplessness. the inability to be with the man i love. all because of stepdaughter. i texted him, emailed him to no effect. i told him i wanted to see him when i was down there, even if for an hour. no answer. St. Jude, i need to see him and say goodbye if this is true. i do not sleep or eat and cry all day. i am confused and hurt. i asked a friend of his if the cancer part was true and he said yes. he couldn't tell me what kind of cancer but did tell me to leave it in God's hands and pray and hope for the best. which i have been doing. something happened last night on the internet which is making me think that none of this is true. i am praying for his healing, my healing and the ability to go down to his house when i am there to see him. no one wants to take a ride with me which i think is unfair as my family knows what i am going through and these could give me closure one way or another. i was staying with him a few months out of the year and have my summer clothes there and a lot of other personal items.we have been through ups and downs, sadness and happiness, deaths, travel, hurricanes and so much more. he has photos of us all over his living room. i pray the stepdaughter leaves for some reason. she only wants what he owns as he has property and money because he worked 3 jobs his whole life to obtain it. please st. jude intercede and help me get back to him and please somehow let me know if this is just a scam to pretend that he is dying. that would break my heart because it is like another person has been born in his place since the stroke and since the woman moved in. he told me originally to come down, she got there first, lied and said she was in arizona and managed to get to florida within 2 hours. totally impossible.she is a nurse and was on a athome case in arizona...how could you leave so fast. i booked my flight and he told me she was there and that 2 women in the house at the same time would not be good for him. (especially since she is evil and hates me) he said when he doesn't need her to help him anymore then i could come back "home" to him. then this cancer thing came up. i don't know what is true anymore. i am praying he does not have cancer but if he went along with this, what has happened to my kind Jimmy? we have argued in the past, as most couples do, but it never kept us apart. i apologized to him for arguing after the stroke but i could hear her in the background telling him don't believe her and other things and got angry. please help us. i am broken and no one has ever been able to do that to me. i thought our lives were to be good since he was selling his business. after my husband died about 30 yrs ago i started dating after a few years. i met a few nice people but only one was a little different and we moved in together for 12 years. then things soured as he had cheated. after that i prayed to God to find me the right person, the one who would love me and me him, the one that i prayed for and he sent me jimmy. not the kind of guy i would've gone out with before but i trusted God and he was right. 16 years with him. please reunite us. please heal this relationship and this man's mind, please cure him of cancer, if that is true and not made up and please dear God, help Jimmy and I. i love and miss him. thank you. amen. sorry it is so long.